💘WHEN A VICTIM MEETS THE MAN SHE THINKS SHE LOVES 
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This is the story of what happens when a woman finds the real man in the pictures that were used to scam her. Obviously this wasn't the man she thought she loved. These were his pictures only, the words came from a Nigerian scammer. Words she mistook for love.
This is the story of a dangerous woman who was determined to 'get her man' under any circumstances. Lies, deceit and a determination not listen to advice. Ultimately to destroy the man in the pictures. She hasn't let up and she wants his total downfall.
Go back a couple of years and.. let's call her Katy, … was scammed by Nigerian scammers. We tried to help her as a victim. Talked to her a lot and tried to get her over the disappointment of the experience.
She was determined to trace the man in the pictures. She came to ScamHaters United for help to do this. We wouldn't. That is something that we don't believe in doing. The real men have had nothing to do with the scam.. leave them in peace. They should have nothing to do with what comes after.
Katy found her man and rang him. She knew that he was in a relationship and living with a partner. Katy told us that she would destroy that right from the start. She would have him.
The man was weak and flattered. Being contacted by victims was nothing new but one from Poland and much younger than him was something he didn't resist. Katy was relentless. Constant bombarding the man with messages and calls to his partner. Detailing their calls, some true, most not. It was too much and over one Christmas, the relationship broke up and Katy had her man.
Since then she has been ruthless and it has been non stop. They had a brief relationship, quickly it was discovered this was not going to work. Katy is a cyber stalker and blackmailer. She has contacted every woman this man has talked to. Constantly interfering in even just ordinary conversations. Stealing emails and circulating them to all. Even went as far as publishing his name, address and even his dog in a fake Facebook profile that had to be closed.
She has caused him to lose his job.
Although in Poland, with the internet and email/messages, contact constantly isn't difficult. We know.. we have had this from Katy. A teacher in Poland. She still contacts us and spread lies, it seems she hates everyone connected with the scam. She is obsessed.
The constant stalking is not letting up. She says she won't be happy until he loses his life. Until she has destroyed him totally. Demanding money every month to stop.
THIS IS WHY A VICTIM AND THE MAN USED SHOULD NEVER MEET. YOU DON'T KNOW PEOPLE... THIS MAN HAS HAD HIS LIFE AFFECTED BY BEING USED.. he hasn't helped himself. He has been weak and responded to victims.. BUT NOBODY DESERVES WHAT KATY IS DOING.
A SCAM HAPPENS AND THIS IS NEVER THE FAULT OF THE MAN USED. Treat his privacy with respect. They have enough to endure and we never know the mental state of either victim in this.
DETAILS WILL BE PASSED TO POLICE IN THIS CASE. ALTHOUGH CROSSING COUNTRIES IS DIFFICULT. A fact Katy is well aware of.
THIS ISN'T OVER.. SADLY.
