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They talk about military romance scams.

 Please listen to Thomas Hamilton (Dr. Tom).....

He is warning about the fakes using his stolen photos on social media and dating sites. There are a lot of accounts impersonating him.

He is a veterinarian and his social media accounts are verified. He is not on any chat apps or dating apps. He does not contact random strangers. He will not ask for any type of money.

Please take all evidence of the scam and report it to cyber crimes in your area.

Do not talk to strangers on social media. Please pay attention to all of the warnings.

Only YOU can protect YOURSELF against scams.

Be safe. Be aware. Educate yourselves.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

Why Oil Rig Workers Are Popular Scam Characters

1. They Are Supposedly Far Away

An oil rig is often located hundreds of miles offshore. This gives the scammer an excuse for:

* Never meeting in person

* Being unavailable for long periods

* Having poor internet or phone connections

* Missing holidays, birthdays, and important events

2. They Earn High Salaries

Most people know offshore workers can make good money. Scammers use this to create the illusion that they are financially stable and successful.

Victims often think:

* “He doesn’t need my money.”

* “He has a great job.”

* “He must be legitimate.”

This lowers suspicion.

3. They Have a Reason to Suddenly Need Money

The scammer will eventually claim there is a problem:

* Equipment broke down

* A contract payment is delayed

* Customs fees must be paid

* Emergency medical issue

* Helicopter transportation costs

* Work permit or licensing problems

The victim is told the money is only a temporary loan.

4. Most People Don’t Know How Oil Rigs Actually Operate

Scammers take advantage of the public’s limited knowledge.

In reality:

* Legitimate oil companies pay workers directly.

* Employers provide transportation to and from rigs.

* Workers are not expected to ask strangers online for money.

* Workers generally have access to company support systems.

5. It Explains Why They Cannot Video Chat Properly

Scammers often claim:

* Company security restrictions

* Poor satellite connections

* Broken cameras

* Dangerous working conditions

This helps them avoid revealing their real identity.

6. The Lifestyle Sounds Exciting and Romantic

The oil rig story creates an image of:

* Adventure

* Hard work

* Sacrifice

* A lonely person looking for love

This often generates sympathy and emotional connection.

Common Oil Rig Scam Script

A typical progression is:

1. Meets victim online.

2. Claims to be an engineer, supervisor, or contractor on an offshore rig.

3. Builds trust and romance.

4. Talks about retiring soon or visiting the victim.

5. An unexpected “emergency” occurs.

6. Requests money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or bank transfers.

7. New emergencies continue appearing.

Red Flag

A genuine oil rig worker may be difficult to contact at times, but a real offshore worker will not need financial assistance from someone they met online.

“Working on an oil rig explains distance—not requests for money. If an online romance suddenly comes with financial emergencies, you’re likely dealing with a scammer, not an offshore worker.”

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us.

 

 Warnings of ones to watch......

Devon Showell

He is now a sheriff. He does not randomly contact strangers on social media. He is not looking for a relationship. He will not ask for money, cards, or bitcoin.

If you are talking to someone using these photos, you will not be talking to Devon.

Only YOU can protect YOURSELF on social media. Be social media aware. Be social media smart.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Here is another group of A. I. videos. All of the voices are either computer generated, cloned, or voiceovers.

Remember that a video is not proof you are talking to the real person. Always ask for a proper video call. One that lasts over 15 minutes, you can see them the whole time, ask direct questions and get direct answers, also have them do a few things like stand up and turn around, hold up 2 fingers, touch their nose. You need to control the video call. 

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Strangers Are Strangers for a Reason

Romance scammers often begin with a simple message from a complete stranger on social media. They may appear friendly, attractive, successful, and genuinely interested in getting to know you. Their goal is to quickly build trust and create an emotional connection.

Common warning signs include:

• Contacting you out of the blue with romantic interest

• Moving the conversation off social media quickly

• Declaring strong feelings very early

• Having excuses for why they cannot meet in person

• Asking for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or financial help

• Creating constant emergencies that require your assistance

Remember, real relationships develop over time. Genuine people do not usually contact random strangers online looking for love and then ask for financial help.

Before becoming emotionally invested, verify who you are talking to, research their photos, and be cautious of anyone who seems too perfect.

Protect your heart, your identity, and your finances. If you didn’t meet them in real life, don’t risk it online.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

#RomanceScam #ScamAwareness #OnlineSafety #ScamHatersUnited #FraudPrevention #StaySafeOnline

 Warnings of ones to watch......

Fernando Torquatto

He is a model and makeup artist. He does not randomly contact strangers on social media. He is not looking for a relationship. He will not ask for money, cards, or bitcoin.

If you are talking to someone using these photos, you will not be talking to Fernando. 

Only YOU can protect YOURSELF on social media. Be social media aware. Be social media smart.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 A romance scam, investment scam, and pig butchering scam often overlap. In fact, many modern pig butchering scams begin as romance scams and gradually transition into fake investment opportunities.

🚩 Warning Signs of a Romance Scam

They Move Fast Emotionally

* Declare love within days or weeks.

* Talk about soulmates, destiny, or marriage very quickly.

* Use excessive flattery and attention (“love bombing”).

They Have an Excuse for Everything

* Working overseas, on an oil rig, military deployment, ship captain, contractor, doctor with an international organization, etc.

* Cannot meet in person.

* Cannot have a normal, spontaneous video call.

They Avoid Verification

* Refuse live video chats or keep them very short.

* Video quality is poor or frozen.

* Never answer specific questions about their life.

* Social media accounts are new, sparse, or inconsistent.

Money Problems Always Appear

* Medical emergency.

* Frozen bank account.

* Customs fees.

* Travel expenses.

* Business problems.

* Family crisis.

* Gift/package fees.

A genuine romantic partner does not build a relationship around financial requests.

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🚩 Warning Signs of a Pig Butchering Scam

The term “pig butchering” comes from the scammer “fattening up” the victim emotionally before stealing large amounts of money.

The Investment Topic Appears Unexpectedly

The scammer may say:

* “I can teach you investing.”

* “My uncle works in finance.”

* “I have a special cryptocurrency opportunity.”

* “I made thousands today.”

They Show Off Wealth

Common tactics include:

* Screenshots of profits.

* Luxury cars and watches.

* Expensive vacations.

* Claims of insider knowledge.

They Introduce a Trading Platform

They direct victims to:

* Unknown cryptocurrency exchanges.

* Websites with unusual names.

* Apps not widely recognized.

* Investment platforms recommended only by them.

The website may look professional but is often completely controlled by criminals.

Early Success Is Fake

The victim:

* Deposits a small amount.

* Sees apparent profits.

* Is allowed to withdraw a little money.

This builds trust.

Then the Big Push Begins

The scammer encourages:

* Larger investments.

* Retirement savings transfers.

* Loans.

* Home equity withdrawals.

* Borrowing from friends and family.

Withdrawal Problems Start

When victims try to cash out:

* Taxes are demanded.

* Verification fees appear.

* Anti-money laundering fees are required.

* Additional deposits are requested.

Legitimate investments do not require you to pay extra money to access your own funds.

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🚩 Major Red Flags Shared by Both Scams

They Isolate You

The scammer may:

* Tell you not to listen to family.

* Say others are jealous.

* Claim “people don’t understand our relationship.”

* Insist the investment opportunity is secret.

They Create Urgency

* “Act now.”

* “This opportunity expires tonight.”

* “The market is moving.”

* “I need help immediately.”

Urgency is a scammer’s best friend.

They Request Certain Payment Methods

Common requests include:

* Cryptocurrency (Bitcoin, Ethereum, USDT).

* Wire transfers.

* Gift cards.

* Cash apps.

* Payments through third parties.

These methods are difficult to recover.

Their Story Changes

Details about:

* Job.

* Location.

* Family.

* Military service.

* Financial situation.

may change over time.

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✅ Questions Everyone Should Ask

Before sending money or investing:

1. Have I met this person in real life?

2. Have I had a normal, uninterrupted video conversation?

3. Am I being asked to keep secrets?

4. Is this person encouraging me to invest through a platform they introduced?

5. Have they ever requested money, crypto, gift cards, or financial assistance?

6. Have they created urgency or emotional pressure?

7. Have trusted friends or family expressed concerns?

If the answer to several of these questions is yes, the risk of a scam is high.

A Simple Rule

If someone you met online becomes both your romantic partner and your financial advisor, assume it is a scam until proven otherwise.

This is one of the most reliable warning signs seen by romance fraud organizations, law enforcement, and financial crime investigators worldwide.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Please listen to John Noble.....

He is warning about the fakes using his stolen photos on social media and dating sites. There are a lot of accounts impersonating him.

His social media accounts are verified. He is not on any chat apps or dating apps. He does not contact random strangers. He will not ask for any type of money. 

Do not talk to strangers on social media. Please pay attention to all of the warnings. Only YOU can protect YOURSELF against scams. 

Be safe. Be aware. Educate yourselves. 

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

Fredovibez

 Please listen to Fredovibez.....

He is warning about the fakes using his stolen photos on social media and dating sites. There are a lot of accounts impersonating him.

He has only one Facebook and one Instagram. He is not on any chat apps or dating apps. He does not contact random strangers. He will not ask for any type of money.

Do not talk to strangers on social media. Please pay attention to all of the warnings. Only YOU can protect YOURSELF against scams.

Be safe. Be aware. Educate yourselves.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Please listen to Chris Darlington.....

He is warning about fake accounts.

He is a deputy sheriff and singer. He will not ask for money for any reason.

Do not talk to strangers who randomly contact you. Do not overshare your life or your personal details.

Only YOU can protect YOURSELF from romance fraud.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Please listen to Joe Hayes.....

He is warning about scams. His photos and videos are being stolen and used by scammers. He is not contacting strangers for a relationship or to get married. He is not on chat apps.

He feels bad that so many are being hurt by scammers. He wants you to be careful on social media.

Please do not talk to strangers on social media. Be social media safe. Only YOU can protect YOURSELF from being scamed.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Please listen to Christopher David.....

He is warning about scams. He is not talking to anyone's sister, aunt, grandmother, or anyone else. He does not use social media as a dating app. He is not on any chat apps. He is not looking for a relationship. He will not contact anyone and he will not ask for money of any kind. They are using his children. They are not talking to you.

All of his accounts are verified. He wil also understandably frustrated.

Please do not talk to strangers on social media. Be social media safe. Only YOU can protect YOURSELF from being scamed.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Many romance scam victims are targeted a second time by people claiming they can help recover money or identify other victims.

Legitimate cyber investigators do exist. They may work for:

* Law enforcement agencies

* Government cybercrime units

* Banks and financial institutions

* Digital forensics companies

* Licensed private investigators with cyber expertise

* Cybersecurity firms

Their job is to analyze digital evidence, trace online activity, investigate fraud networks, preserve evidence, and assist with criminal or civil cases.

What about “cyber engineering programs” that claim to find other victims?

Be very cautious.

Many websites, social media accounts, and self-proclaimed “cyber investigators” claim they can:

* Track a scammer’s exact location

* Hack the scammer’s device

* Recover stolen money

* Identify all of the scammer’s other victims

* Access bank accounts or cryptocurrency wallets

* Use secret software to expose the scammer

In reality, these claims are often exaggerated or completely false.

Signs it may be a recovery scam

Many romance scam victims encounter “recovery agents” who claim:

* “We found your scammer.”

* “We can recover your money.”

* “We have identified hundreds of victims.”

* “Pay a fee to unlock the report.”

* “Pay for tracing software.”

* “Pay taxes or insurance before funds are released.”

These are frequently scams targeting people who have already been victimized.

Can investigators identify other victims?

Sometimes, yes—but usually only under limited circumstances.

Law enforcement or major fraud investigators may:

* Seize scammer devices

* Analyze victim lists found on computers

* Review financial records

* Examine chat logs and email accounts obtained through legal processes

However, an ordinary private investigator generally cannot magically identify every victim of a scammer.

A good rule for SHU members

If someone claims they can:

* Recover money with a guarantee,

* Hack a scammer,

* Access private accounts,

* Reveal all victims through special software,

* Or demands upfront fees,

treat that as a major warning sign.

Legitimate investigators usually explain:

* What they can and cannot do,

* What evidence they need,

* The limits of their investigation,

* And they do not guarantee results.

One of the most common secondary scams is the recovery scam—where fraudsters pose as cyber investigators, hackers, government agents, or fund recovery specialists and target people who have already lost money in a romance scam.

“No legitimate investigator can guarantee the recovery of your money or magically identify every victim of a scammer. Be especially cautious of anyone who contacts you unexpectedly claiming they can recover funds or expose the scammer for a fee.”

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Rob G Hammond has some commonsense advice.....

The military do not have to pay for replacement weapons. Look in the mirror and ask yourself that same exact question.

The military will not show you their passport or CAC ID to prove they are real. They do not need money to pay for leave.

Watch out for fake accounts of Rob. He tells how they change the name or user ID to create the fakes. Rob is not on any dating sites at all.

The military is not on social media looking for a relationship. They do not need money for any reason.

Be social media smart. Be social media aware. Only YOU can protect YOURSELF from being scammed.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Please listen to That Padgett Boy.....

He is warning about scams.

If you contact him and he says, "no it's not me it's a scammer", no means no. Do not keep asking him questions about himself or his life.

Do not talk to strangers who randomly contact you. Do not overshare your life or your personal details.

Only YOU can protect YOURSELF from romance fraud.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Romance scammers frequently use a “package scam” as part of the trust-building and money-extraction process.

How the Package Scam Works

1. The Promise of a Valuable Package

The scammer claims they are sending something important to prove their love, commitment, wealth, or honesty, such as:

* Expensive jewelry

* Gold bars or precious gems

* Cash or checks

* Luxury watches

* Designer gifts

* Important business documents

* Military paperwork

* Inheritance documents

* Company contracts

* Personal belongings for their “future life together”

The victim is often told:

“I want you to have something valuable from me so you know I am serious about our relationship.”

2. Fake Shipping Information

The scammer provides:

* Tracking numbers

* Shipping receipts

* Customs forms

* Airway bills

* Courier company websites

Many of these documents are completely fake, altered, or created using online templates.

3. A Sudden Problem Appears

Just before delivery, the victim is contacted by:

* A fake shipping company

* A fake customs agent

* A fake courier service

* A fake government official

The victim is told the package is being held because of:

* Customs fees

* Import taxes

* Insurance charges

* Anti-money laundering regulations

* Security inspections

* Diplomatic clearance fees

* Storage fees

4. The Victim Pays

The victim is asked to send money to release the package.

Common payment methods include:

* Wire transfers

* Gift cards

* Cryptocurrency

* Mobile payment apps

After payment, another fee appears.

5. Endless Fees

The package never arrives because it never existed.

New excuses continue:

* Additional customs charges

* Unexpected taxes

* Airport storage fees

* Security bonds

* Anti-terrorism certificates

* Currency declaration fees

The scammer and fake shipping company work together to keep collecting money.

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Why Romance Scammers Use Package Stories

It Creates “Proof”

Victims often think:

“A scammer wouldn’t spend money sending me gifts.”

The promised package becomes “evidence” that the relationship is real.

It Creates Emotional Investment

The victim becomes excited about:

* Receiving gifts

* Meeting in person soon

* Building a future together

This emotional anticipation makes it easier to overlook warning signs.

It Creates Urgency

Victims are told:

* The package will be destroyed.

* It will be returned to sender.

* Authorities will seize it.

* A deadline is approaching.

Urgency reduces critical thinking.

It Makes the Victim Feel Responsible

The scammer may say:

“I spent thousands of dollars sending this to you. Please don’t let it go to waste.”

This creates guilt and pressure.

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Major Red Flags

🚩 Someone you’ve never met sends expensive gifts.

🚩 The package contains cash, gold, or valuables.

🚩 You are asked to pay customs or release fees.

🚩 The shipping company contacts you through free email services.

🚩 The courier website was recently created or looks unprofessional.

🚩 The scammer becomes emotional or angry when you question the fees.

🚩 New fees appear after previous fees are paid.

🚩 The package is supposedly stuck in another country for unusual reasons.

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The Reality

In legitimate international shipping, the sender normally handles most arrangements before shipment, and government agencies do not typically demand random payments through gift cards, cryptocurrency, or personal accounts to release a package. When a romance scammer promises a package filled with valuables and then asks for money to release it, the package is usually fictional and serves only as a tool to obtain more funds from the victim.

This tactic is especially common in military, contractor, engineer, doctor, oil-rig worker, and overseas businessperson romance scams, where the scammer already has a believable reason for shipping items from another country.

“Remember: If you’ve never met them in person and you’re being asked to pay to receive a package, gift, or inheritance—it’s not a delivery, it’s a scam.”

7If you have my further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 Warning to Watch....

Rafael Campos He is a Brazilian lawyer and serves their judicial system. He will never randomly contact strangers on social media, and he will not ask for any type of money. There are some A. I. enhanced photos. He has never been in the U.S. Military and he is not a JAG lawyer. The TikTok account they are using to contact potential clients; well you can see for yourself which country it is from. This scammer gets very mad when you do not send money. They also threaten you. Please do NOT talk to strangers on social media. It is not safe. Only YOU can protect YOURSELF. If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 “A video call confirms a face. It does not confirm an identity.”

What SHOULD be accepted as a proper video call?

A video call is stronger evidence when most or all of these occur:

✅ The camera is live and interactive.

✅ The person’s lips and voice stay synchronized throughout the call.

✅ The video is clear enough to see facial details.

✅ The person responds immediately to spontaneous requests such as:

* Wave with your left hand.

* Hold up three fingers.

* Touch your nose.

* Turn your head side to side.

* Stand up and walk a few steps.

* Show both hands.

✅ The person can carry on a natural conversation while performing those actions.

✅ The call lasts more than a few minutes.

✅ There are no constant excuses about poor connections.

✅ Multiple video calls occur over time.

✅ The person appears consistent with what they claim about their age, location, language, and background.

Even then, the video only proves:

“You spoke with the person on the screen.”

It does not prove:

“The person on the screen is the owner of the photos or the identity being claimed.”

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What should NOT be accepted as proof?

🚩 A video clip sent through messaging.

Scammers often send stolen videos from social media.

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🚩 A “video call” where only the victim can be seen.

Some scammers claim:

* Camera broken

* Camera covered

* Military restrictions

* Offshore internet restrictions

No visible person = not a video call.

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🚩 Extremely short calls.

A 10-30 second appearance proves very little.

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🚩 Calls where the person constantly freezes.

This can hide:

* Deepfake software

* Pre-recorded footage

* Video loops

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🚩 Calls where the person refuses simple requests.

Examples:

* Won’t turn sideways

* Won’t show hands

* Won’t move around

* Won’t adjust lighting

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🚩 Calls with poor lighting or sunglasses.

Scammers often hide facial details intentionally.

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🚩 Calls where the voice and lips do not match.

A common sign of:

* AI-generated video

* Deepfake technology

* Altered recordings

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🚩 Calls where the person appears only briefly and then hangs up.

This is a common tactic using:

* A hired impersonator

* A scam team member

* A stolen live account

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🚩 Calls where the person claims:

* “The military doesn’t allow video.”

* “The oil rig blocks video.”

* “The UN doesn’t allow video.”

* “The hospital doesn’t allow video.”

These explanations are usually false.

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The biggest misconception victims have

Many victims say:

“I know it’s really him because we video called.”

The problem is that the call may only prove that someone appeared on camera.

A romance scammer can use:

* The real owner of stolen photos

* A paid model

* An accomplice

* A scam-team member

* A hacked account owner

* AI-generated video

* Deepfake technology

Therefore:

Better Rule

Photos = not proof.

Video calls = not proof.

Money requests reveal the truth.

When someone you met online begins asking for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, bank transfers, investment opportunities, shipping fees, customs fees, medical emergencies, military leave fees, or travel expenses, that is far more reliable evidence of a romance scam than any photo or video call.

If you have any further questions, please contact us via Messenger.

 After someone realizes they have been caught in a romance scam, the first few days are often the most important. Victims frequently experience shock, embarrassment, grief, anger, and confusion—all while the scammer may continue trying to manipulate them into staying. Taking clear, practical steps can reduce further harm.

1. Stop All Contact Immediately

* Block the scammer on every platform.

* Do not answer “goodbye” messages or promises to explain.

* Ignore threats, pleas, or declarations of love.

* Be aware that scammers often return using new accounts.

2. Protect Your Financial Accounts

* Contact your bank, credit card companies, and any payment services immediately.

* Report every fraudulent transaction.

* Ask if transfers can be recalled (sometimes wire transfers or cryptocurrency cannot, but it is still worth asking).

* Change online banking passwords.

* Monitor accounts closely for unauthorized activity.

3. Secure Your Digital Accounts

* Change passwords for:

    * Email

    * Social media

    * Banking

    * Shopping sites

* Use strong, unique passwords.

* Turn on two-factor authentication (2FA).

* Scan your devices for malware if the scammer convinced you to install software.

4. Report the Scam

Reporting helps investigators identify patterns and warn others.

Depending on where you live, report to:

* Local law enforcement

* National fraud reporting agencies

* The platform where you met the scammer

* Your bank or financial institution

5. Preserve Evidence

Don’t delete everything immediately.

Save:

* Chat messages

* Emails

* Phone numbers

* Usernames

* Photos

* Payment receipts

* Cryptocurrency wallet addresses

* Gift card receipts

* Shipping information

These records may help investigators and can also help educate others later.

6. Watch for Secondary Scams

Victims are frequently targeted again by:

* “Recovery agents”

* Fake hackers

* Fake investigators

* Fake lawyers

* Fake cryptocurrency recovery companies

Anyone promising to recover your money for an upfront fee is almost certainly another scammer.

7. Understand the Emotional Trauma

Many victims ask:

* “How could I fall for this?”

* “Was any of it real?”

* “Can I ever trust again?”

These feelings are normal. Romance scams involve psychological grooming, emotional dependency, and manipulation—not simply deception.

8. Tell Someone You Trust

Keeping the scam secret often increases shame.

Consider telling:

* A trusted family member

* A close friend

* A counselor

* A support group for fraud victims

Support can make recovery much easier.

9. Learn How the Scam Worked

Understanding the scam helps victims regain confidence and recognize manipulation techniques such as:

* Love bombing

* Future faking

* Isolation

* Emotional blackmail

* Manufactured emergencies

* Financial grooming

Knowledge helps prevent repeat victimization.

10. Give Yourself Time to Heal

Recovery isn’t just about money.

Victims often grieve:

* The imagined future.

* The daily companionship.

* The emotional connection they believed was genuine.

* The trust that was broken.

Healing takes time, and it’s okay to seek professional support if the emotional impact is significant.

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A Message for Victims

You are not defined by this scam.

Romance scammers are skilled criminals who spend countless hours studying human psychology and building trust before asking for money. The relationship felt real because the manipulation was designed to feel real.

Recovery begins the moment you choose to protect yourself, seek support, and move forward.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.

 A message from The "Dadbod Veteran"

He is warning about scams. They are using his stolen images to create fake videos created using A. I. (Artificial Intelligence)

He will not slide into your DMs. He will not ask for money of any kind. He cannot stop the scammers from doing this. All he can do is try to educate the public.

Do not talk to strangers who randomly contact you. Do not overshare your life or your personal details.

Only YOU can protect YOURSELF from romance fraud.

If you have any further questions, please feel free to contact us.